Linked In But Lonely
In a week I doubled my LinkedIn network by using very cool tools they've developed to scoop up your contacts from Outlook, Hotmail, Gmail and Yahoo and match them with the membership database. With a few clicks I invited my pals to formally connect with me on LinkedIn.
Now we're linked but leery.
This exercise in trying to figure out if I'm the right demographic to take advantage of the social networking phenomenon prompted a bunch of interesting reactions. Roughly 20 percent of the people I pinged asked me why I was linking to them. They expressed doubt about the value of connecting ourselves on this formal network.Many said they were members of a club that they couldn't explain and didn't see any value from.
Another 25 percent sent me e-mails outside the system asking questions or catching me up on business or personal details. It taught me that the true value of a network lies in its use. Who cares that you know a lot of people? If they aren't engaged with you and if they can't be quickly mobilized to help you they are just names on a list. Incidentally I asked 20 friends to look at a prototype web site the week before. Fifteen and 15 of them commented thoughtfully within 36 hours without logging into the infrastructure of a social network.
I routinely ask people I know for stuff --- advice, contributions to charity, introductions to their friends, research questions for my clients, travel and restaurant recommendations and job leads for friends and family. I don't use anything more sophisticated than my contacts list. And when I did use LinkedIn recently I drew a blank.
I contacted a former colleague in Germany who I knew worked with the Director of Business Development at LinkedIn. I targeted LinkedIn as a potential partner for one of my clients so I pinged my guy and asked for an introduction to his guy. He did it. And the friend-of-my-friend agreed to talk to me and gave me his e-mail address. I wrote him and then --- radio silence. I got the same result on the 2nd, 3rd and 4th tries too.
So I'm LinkedIn but lonely. The network's value proposition is to extend my business reach and influence and to accelerate my ability to connect with others. But so far I've supplied the only energy in the mix and the only thing I've extended is the list of names attached to mine which doesn't thrill any of us.























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